the intellectual
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11/30/2016 4:37:21 AM
Sometimes the greatest ideas fail
You can think and analyze til you're blue in the face but if the chemistry is not right, as Neil Young sings, you could just be "pissin' in the wind". If a girl doesn't like ya, she ain't gonna sleep with ya, even if you wear your Sunday best. You can feel like you're open-minded but if folks find you unapproachable, the lot is cast. Far braver men than you have lost the path.
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birdy's eye view
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11/30/2016 8:25:17 AM
Oddly, I was doing a spot of analyzing of myself today.
I've had some great ideas, even won awards for them, but when push comes to shove I didn't have the strength and perseverance to turn them into anything more than good ideas. I'm not made of the right stuff as they say.
On the other point, I find that unapproachable folks tend to find each other, they're usually nice people but have characteristics (physical and mental) that are different from the perceived norm. That just makes them interesting and independent minded.
However, why would you want a girl to 'sleep' with you if she didn't like you? That seems shallow and desperate. If by open minded you mean you'd sleep with anyone, then I think you need to analyze a bit more.
If you want a girl to like you, wearing your "Sunday Best" (or even using that phrase) could be a turn off.
In my experience the people who protest their open mindedness too often and too loudly are usually NOT.
There is no right or wrong path, if you take a path that leads you into a wood, stop a while and listen to the birds, that's what I do.
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11/30/2016 8:46:03 AM
just goes to show, you can be a brainy intellectual, and still they call you asshole.
I don't know why.
I think Birdy has the right idea.
Sunday Best is a waste of time.
Show up at her doorstep in your "birthday suit",
and if she invites you in, 23 skidoo!
And if not, have a gorilla costume waiting in the bushes
so you can walk home yet with pride.
Oh well it's not a total loss,
at least your photo captures your good side. Say CHEESE.
(I'm sorry, to whomever, is behind that... I've never been able
to stop laughing at this picture, and I've taken some silly photos meself you know)
George is always saying 'everything happens for a reason'.
When we're not making fun of him for that, we try to figure out
all the implications to that. If I had a dollar for every amazing thing
that 'almost' happened... I like to believe, me mostly as I'm the one with
the body around here, that things happen for a reason.
"either that or everyone's a fuck up" adds John.
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